I really need someone to help me figure this out. About three months ago, my wife and I started talking about divorce.....okay, okay, SHE decided we need to be divorced. I agree. It has taken those three months to figure that out, bit I agree. Do to circumstances beyond my control (or hers) untill we get some cash, neither of us can move out, so we are forced here together. My problem is that she has decided to start going out to clubs and staying out salsa dancing until 4:00am. Now, her friends, girls and guys, call all of the time. She is not shy about telling me about the guys that hit on her, or her coworkers that "want to get some" from her after outings with coworkers. Guys call all the time, and some hang up when I answer. Do I have the right to be angry about this? I am trying really hard to let go, but these kind of actions seem to be put there just to hurt me. I mean, really, neither one of us has started papers yet, we don't have the money. I know this for a fact because I am in charge of the bank account and paying bills. Would a decent person at least wait a while? Man, I'm so confused!
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