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i have been married to my husband for ten years and i just dont think that i can put up with his shit anymore, he is mean to my daughter who he addopted when she was two, but he is not mean to the twins at all, we have been fighting for about a year now, and i cant take it, he does nothing with me and the kids, but if his friends call he leaves. he is always telling me what to do or what i cant do, i dont need a father i need a husband, i have kept this a secret for a while now that i was going to divorce him, but i finaly told him today and now he wants to try harder, which we have done many times before but it just keeps ending the same way it is now, i love him but im not in love with him any more should i go for my gut feeling or should i give him another chance again...please help
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Sorry you are in this position.
I'm sorry you're struggling right now.
It's really uncool that he's mean to your daughter after adopting her.
My husband also tells me what I can and can't do--watching tv, listening to the radio, going shopping, seeing my family--he even got mad at me for buying really cute clothes for our daughter for 75% off because he said I was making him feel like he couldn't afford to pay full price!
I say trust your gut....if he thinks you're the problem, he's not likely to be willing to make any changes.
You need to protect your daughter, too--I thin she will traumatized by him treating her differently than the twins.
Take care.
I would say follow your gut feelings
If he laughs at counseling, well there you got it.
You will be better off without this man in your life.
Hugs!!
I always recommend meeting with a lawyer for a free consultation. They can give you information on what you'll be facing. And meeting with a counselor to help you work through any questions or doubts you might have. Between those two, I think the answers will be more clear to you.
If you're going to counseling and after a few weeks he doesn't show any interest, your therapist will be able to help you decide what to do.