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Divorcing and living together? Can it work?

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I have been separated from my husband for 3 months now. I am still living in the house, and he had left and is living with his parents. He feels that he is inconvienencing them and and that since he is still paying for half the house he feels that it is his turn to live here now and that I can either stay or leave. He said he's moving in whether I like it or not. So over the last 3 months, we have tried counselling and I don't think it's working. I think we both know that it's over with, but neither of us will take that extra step and go for the divorce. I finally have decided to go for it and made an appointment to see the lawyer this week. (I have had to delay it a couple of times due to scheduling, and chicken in a way too. He is moving in tomorrow, and I know there is no good time to say I want a divorce, but I think it has to come out on the weekend at some point. We couldn't even see each other in person the last 3 months without having an all out war with each other, and now we are going to live under the same roof again... What should I do when he moves back in and should I leave (even though I have nowhere to go) or stick it out and stay till we decide what is happening with the house and such??
Can you really live with someone who you are ending your life with?
Can you really live with someone who you are ending your life with?
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