My parents are divorced, and I was better off for it! My Dad NEVER spoke negatively about my Mother. He put his feeling about her aside, and always made me feel that it was ok to love her. I wrote about my Dad and Step-mom in my journal, for those that are divorced or are going through a divorce it might help you to see how benificial it is to never talk negatively about your x infront of/to your children. I did not have contact with my Mother for 13 years (her choice)of my life but when she did come back into my life, I was able to see her, and build a good relationship with her because my Dad loved me enough to put his feelings about her aside, and look out for my best interrest. I love him so much for that! So for those who are interrested, I invite you to read my journal, and see this from the childs point of view.
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