My ex left me after ten years with 2 small boys, no job, and a chronic illness called Crohn's disease which is severe IBD. This was 5 years ago and since then I have returned to college, gotten a job, and found a fabulous new man for me and my children. I thought I was healing- then last week his mother (yes- he's a mama's boy) served me with child support reduction papers. He lives out of state, sees them for 24 hrs once a month, and calls once a week. Now he wants his $ back, too? Also, He owed me alimony too. It was the same amount each month ($300) as was my half of our debt payments. To make things easier, I waived alimony and he took the debt. Then he turned around and declared bankruptcy! The debts went to me and I had to do it too! Not only did I miss out on alimony, I am bankrupt too. I am struggling to put food on the table and he makes 70,000 a year. Meanwhile, his kids are living below the poverty level. I hate him, why can he still hurt me?
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