I really need some advice. I have been married for 8yrs. Have not been happy for the last 6yrs. We have a 7yr old boy, he has a 15yr old boy, I have a 19yr old boy. My husband mentally abuses me in front of my boys and his boy. He never got along with my 19yr old just because he does not like him and picks on any and everything that he does. We have been separated several times within the last 3 yrs. We separated about 1yr ago for 6 months, got back together in November and it has been hell since. We have already filed for divorce but we put it on hold. He gets mad over any and everything. He's not a happy person. He has cussed me out, my mother out, my son out, you just wouldn't believe some of the things he has done. The only reason I stay is because I don't want to be single again, (3rd marriage) raising my 7yr old alone, giving up my home possibly moving to an apartment, I'm just tired. But when I'm with him, I feel nothing at all because of everything he has done. Although I have told myself that I don't have to be happy, I just want my 7yr old to have his family together, go on family trips together, etc. He is very close to his dad, although I think he is realizing how his dad treats everyone. HELP!
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