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Divorce after 17 yrs AND trying to Move On

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How do you even move on? I think about it constantly.
I keeping thinking.....I really want to "pay him back" for what he did. I want to find a great man to parade in front of my soon to be ex and smile. How sick is that!!!! Nothing would bother him more than seeing me with another man (he has told me this repeatedly). That said, I would never do that, but I do think about it.
I know what I just said will not help me in ...moving on....It just hurts so bad to to know your stbx is "happy" with fruits of their indiscretions and I am left... well just sad and carrying all of the responsibility of the life we had built. Not that I would have it any other way. I don't EVER want him back and I want the responsibility of our children... I suppose I just want to SCREAM about it and well I want him to feel some of my pain.
I keeping thinking.....I really want to "pay him back" for what he did. I want to find a great man to parade in front of my soon to be ex and smile. How sick is that!!!! Nothing would bother him more than seeing me with another man (he has told me this repeatedly). That said, I would never do that, but I do think about it.
I know what I just said will not help me in ...moving on....It just hurts so bad to to know your stbx is "happy" with fruits of their indiscretions and I am left... well just sad and carrying all of the responsibility of the life we had built. Not that I would have it any other way. I don't EVER want him back and I want the responsibility of our children... I suppose I just want to SCREAM about it and well I want him to feel some of my pain.
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I feel for you and your current situation Kate. Stay srong.