I have been married for 14yrs...Seperated for 8months..and have two children. My husband had some sort of a break down 8months ago and decided to leave. He was getting help for this for a few weeks then decided he didn't need any help or medication. I have been patient and tried to work things out. He is very distant. seems shut down and blows up if I want to talk about our problems or finding some solutions. My oldest son is very hurt and upset from all of this. His grades at school have fallen and he doesnt want us to get back together because of how he treats me. My husband says he doesn't want to be married anymore..that he isn't good for anyone..has caused too much pain and should just walk away..I just don't know what to do..I'm worried about my kids..My oldest son doesn't want anything to do with him..I don't know how this relationship can be saved if my husband isn't willing to do anything to fix it. I'm also scared about being divorced and being on my own. I work in retail but its not enough money to do it alone. I didn't go to college...Just needing a little advice. Thanks..
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