Please help on giveing me some support or advice all would be greatley appreciated. I am new to this group as of today.Last friday my husband left for work as always,he woke up with me and left out the house in a bad mood,from, something stupid I said to him,not even thinking i was probably half asleep,but he gave me a piece of his mind as he was leaveing for work. on his lunch break he came home,he dropped of some milk in the house and even bought me lunch..,we are down to one car at the moment ,well anyhow he then proceded to snap at me once again and left back to work.He called me once to tell me he didnt make much money this week and asked me if i was mad and i told him no,I thought it was a weird question to begin with,he told me he loved me and we hung up.ok he usally gets home at 5:30 everyday,it was 6:00 and he still wasen't home so i just sent him a quick text message and asked him where he was,he text me back( i'm on my way). So another half hour goes by and he text me this excact message (youre car is at the end of the driveway,dont call me anymore,leave me alone,i'm fileing for divorce) my car was at the end of the driveway with his key in it( him no where to be found).It is now monday night exactley 11:54pm, I have not heard or seen from him since... he shut off hiscell phone,I'm really starting to loose it,I depend on my husband right now ,I am out of work due to cancer,if he never comes home I will not be able to keep this house up on my own and i have no where to go,we rent so the rent will eventually be due,along with the bills,everything is in his name,at this time i dont even have a licience,we live way out in a country in the middle of no where,when food runs... out no licience,no money a million and one things are raceing thru my head,I don't know how he went from calling me an hour before to tell me he loved me to this.He has never done this before,I walked to church sunday to pray,because i really need it right now,I always thought God wouldn't give us something we really can't handle,my life hasent been easy and i got thru at of tuff times but if my husband dosent return with my health issue and,no licience i'm not sure I can handle this situation,my health has even been getting worse since he left.I love him so very much but am very confused as if he's just pissed ,and needs space to calm down or is this for real he's divorceing me?,when i went to church i noticed he came home to get some of his belongings but not all of them, like more work clothes,and, sneakers but did not take everything but still his cell phone is shut off and he hasent called.All i do is worry cry worry cry i'm starting to loose it over here,and really in need of some friends and support please any advice will help not sure of my future today anymore I never expected this to happen why isint he calling me,to explain or atleast tell me where i stand is he just going to dissaper and never come home? this is really hard to belive how can he love me by treating me this way?,i have no where to go so i have no choice to stay in my home,without him i will be broke,and no one can survive on broke not for long .I love him and am so very sad right now I do know my husband says things he regrets saying later ,but has never just dissapered out of the clear blue sky on me,I am really lost as of what do right now, I love this man,he is everything to me! I have text him even tho his phone is of,f in the hopes he comes back, he dosent reply.please help! I'm so sad I think i may even pass, from a broken heart at times.
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