Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
i've had a really difficult six yrs w/ the love of my life. LOL, i forget how long we will be married, possibly three years. It takes two to tangle. He controlled, abused me emotionally, physiically. It wasn't easy and towards the end, i couldn't stand him clinging on. For the last time, he abused me, choked me. I wasn't going to call the police, then this stranger seen the mark on my neck, and said, holy smokes, who has been sucking on your neck? I told him my husband abused me, this stranger went straight to the phone and called the police, then i talked w/ them w/o thinking about it. Today my husband is incarcerated, possibly facing over two to three years. I can't help him, i love him still but he needs counseling, long term treatment. Anyhow to make a long story short...he doesn't want me to get a divorce, he said to leave it alone...that i would collect his life insurance if something should happen to him. Isn't that sick?
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
I think you we can all hope for more than collecting someone's life insurance.
Your life is worth more than any insurance he may have on him.
What would be your list of an IDEAL person. Imagine it - what would be the qualities that you need, what would be the characteristics that you wouldn't accept? Trusting, loving, truth, committment, devotion, etc. OK - if your current partner doesn't meet this same criteria - why are you with them? If he isn't willing to come up to your standards - why are you with him? Accepting less - is exactly that - accepting less - and for why - are you not worth it? I hardly think so. Everybody is worth happiness, but you must trust in the universe (god) to help you through this and to be strong. Don't accept less than what you deserve.