Found out today my husband is in communication with the OW again. He told me he is not sleeping with her, but they are communicating. I did remind him that he is married, and putting his career in jeopardy by cheating. He is a marine, and he told me that if he is not sleeping with the OW the marine corps does not consider it adultary. He retires with 20 yrs of service in another year. I told him it is selfish to be putting his family at risk of losing benefits if his Col. pursues this issue. There is a background where the Col. knows of his affair. Nothing was done, but now there are other issues with his job performance. He told me that I should move forward with my life- and should start divorce proceedings. I am devastated. I knew it was coming but it still hurts. How can he blatantly hurt me with news of him and the OW? How can he be so cavalier when he tells me to start divorce proceedings, and why does it hurt so much when I knew it coming?
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