I have been going over in my head all the details of what needs to be done and how, if I leave my husband. Everything here is in my name except his truck is in both of our names. I currently do not work to stay home with the kids plus my car is broken down. I don't know if I should stay here at the house and ask him to leave or let him stay here and I go. His brother lives right down the road so I would not be really getting away from him and his family which is what I need. BUT I am scared to leave him here with the responsiblity of paying the bills and taking care of the house. I just can't trust him to take care of everything since it is in my name. I have thought about just shutting everything off and having him put it all in his name but that still leaves the house in my name which is the BIG deal. I just don't have it in me to be hateful to him and I know I will still want to help him work things out and not leave him high and dry on how to get it all done. He is not too good at the paying bills thing. Crazy I know. By the way, I do have a lot of family and friend's support as far as the car and having somewhere to go.
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