I know that it is not necessarily healthy or good to feel this way but I cannot shake the feeling that I want to get revenge on the girl my husband was having an affair with. The fact is that both my husband and I have suffered serious consequences because of his affair- is it fair that she gets to continue on with her life with no consequences? I continue to resolve my issues with my husband but I feel that I have not gotten to resolve anything with this girl. Shouldn't it be fair that I let her boyfriend know what she did behind his back? Wouldn't it be appropriate to turn her life upside down like she did mine- an eye for an eye kind of thing? I have thought about sending a mass email out at the school she goes to, including copies of the text messages and pictures she sent my husband, to let people know how she really is. I have also thought about putting up fliers with her picture on it stating,"Married man thief on the loose, lock up your men". I have even considered sending a letter to her parents and the school itself, because it is a Catholic school, and asking them if they condone and promote immoral behavior from their students. So many devious thoughts of revenge have popped into my head- and I am not a devious person. My question is- has anyone else considered getting revenge on their spouses and/or the other men/women?
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