Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Last saturday night I was emotionally drained, and severely depressed. I took a handful of sleeping pills after my pos stbx pushed one to many of my buttons. After taking the pills, I knew in my heart it was a BIG mistake so I drove myself to the hospital & was prepared for whatever came next. What came next was a 48hr hold on a "voluntary basis" at a pych facility. Most people's first 24 hrs on that floor are scary, I found it peaceful. There were group sessions 4 times a day and MANY people to talk to & with 24/7. During my stay, I was a sponge, taking in all the info & advice given. The food is not so good but ... it's edible. I learned that my feeling lazy, being fatigued all the time, staying in bed, not eating, not conversing, & not being able to hold a thought in my head, and isolating myself has a name ... clinical depression!!!
My last 24hrs were sad because not only had I made many new friends but also that I knew I would be returning to the same surroundings. Well I am now home & see things in a complete different light. I will see a psychiatrist once a month, Therapist once a week and attend an outpatient therapy group 3 times a week in addition have joined DivorceCare which meets once a week and found a Care-Giver outreach program.
Depression subsides & peaks but will NOT just go away.
NO BODY'S situation is worth doing something irreversible
Please go to the closest hospital and get yourself help you need !!!!!
My last 24hrs were sad because not only had I made many new friends but also that I knew I would be returning to the same surroundings. Well I am now home & see things in a complete different light. I will see a psychiatrist once a month, Therapist once a week and attend an outpatient therapy group 3 times a week in addition have joined DivorceCare which meets once a week and found a Care-Giver outreach program.
Depression subsides & peaks but will NOT just go away.
NO BODY'S situation is worth doing something irreversible
Please go to the closest hospital and get yourself help you need !!!!!
-
I miss traveling with my husband. Has anyone found a specific site regarding cruising for widow/widowers or any sightseeing trips. Not interested in being with couples and kids,,,I realize a cruise ship will have a portion size of families and couples, but perhaps they also put together a part of the cruise ship for groups of widows/widowers????
-
A friend sent this to me..As far as I can see, grief will never truly end.It may become softer overtime, more gentleand some days will feel sharp.But grief will last as long as Love does - ForeverIt's simply the way the absence of your loved onemanifests in your heart. A deep longing accompaniedby the deepest Love some days. The heavy fog mayreturn and the next day, it may recede.Once again, it's...
It is a terrible desease, many of people experience it during this time of spouse separation, but I would bet it has happend before to most.
Normally I am a happy, fun loving well liked guy. But that black cloud can still hover. It is next to impossible to remove it without help. Cathi you did a great job getting help, not only did it save your life, it will help you recognize the downward turn as you progress through life.
Way to go, and this post is inspirational.