I am so tired of defending myself. I feel there is a stigma to being divorced, like I have to explain why. It wasn't my fault for the divorce. I have defended this so many times that I feel like I don't seem sincere. I sometimes wish I had some kind of banner so people would know. I know it shouldn't be important whose fault it was, but I was married to this monster whose family is supporting and defending him. I don't know what is being said behind my back. Again, I know it shouldn't matter, it just bugs me! Thanks for the vent, anyone else feel this way?
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