Is anyone else having a really hard time controlling their emotions when you have to deal with / talk to your stbx? I am perfectly fine until I have to talk to or deal with him. He is VERY unreasonable and wants to fight about everything...(I shouldn't be surprised because it was like this in our marriage as well). He always told me that I have "control" issues, but since I have been away from him, I have found that HE is the one with control issues. I would be just fine if I didn't have to deal with him, but we have small children so I HAVE to. I don't want him see that he gets to me, but sometimes I can't help it. Any suggestions on how to keep my emotions under control?
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