Wife left over a year ago after 16 years of being together, and 14 years of marriage. She is 15 years younger. No legal actions taken by either party. She implies that she just needs "time", and "this isn't the end"..but will not discuss returning "right now". She had a male "friend" for a brief period, but that is over. She lives alone. I'm still very much in love with her, and she knows this. I'm semi-retired, but work because I need the income. She took her income with her when she left, and left me with the mortgage etc. Am I simply stupid, crazy, or BOTH waiting for her to make a decision? If so, why can't I move on? I appreciate ANY suggestions.
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