Our youngest son turns 5 next month and now that we're in the middle of this whole nightmare, I don't know how I'm supposed to handle it where stbx is concerned. Right now, I am basically doing the no contact thing except where the kids or finances are concerned, and that is primarily by email. Last time we exchanged the kids, I barely spoke to him. I can't. My family all want to beat the crap out of him. I don't think there is any way at this time that I could involve him in a birthday party for our son. What is the right way to deal with this?
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