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Day dreaming

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I have been day dreaming about my new life lately. Upon my pendng divorce I haven't been able to see beyond this craziness. But this weekend, I went for a run and saw the most amazing home. I can see myself being in this home alone with my dog, my interior design, my dishes, my wine cellar, my new paint on the walls, my car in the driveway....and my life. Oh, a nice guy to hang out with would be nice, but not necessary! haha!
What dreams do other people have?
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I'd love to hike under that arch in your photograph. Other than that, someone who likes to do some of what I like and wants to travel the world.
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I want to buy a house.
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I just want to be happy plain and simple
LarryLDN
LarryLDN
I would like for the woman of my dreams to come live with me, explore NY together, and some day travel the world.
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A slim body, lovingly wrapped in an Armani suit, a white smile, a calm demeanor. A black Jaguar XJ8, a house that glows, a woman with inner beauty turning to smile, reaching for my hand. My son growing into the wonderful man that he will be. Travelling to wonderful places, catching the sunrise over Ayers Rock, going in to space, meeting the light that expands into a tunnel and finally learning why.
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I always wanted to be the person everyone relied on. I wanted to be wise and assertive and reliable. I want to publish stories (already have one on the way!) I want that feeling. There was a feeling I have felt before and I want it back. There was a young lady who all others should be judged by, who I should be judged by (am I worthy of a woman who is worthy of her?) Now I sit and ponder what an apartment would look like with only my belongings in it. At the same time I'm trying not to give up on my wife and myself. The kids are not a question, I can't give up on them. I need to be even stronger for them no matter what the outcome, they deserve the best. So does my wife. I'm starting to question if that's me.
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My wishes are very simple. I wish for a happy, normal life. I want kids and a home, and a college degree.
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A couple days ago maybe a little bit now...I wished to have another baby and marry the man I loved for so long...It took a friend to let me know that It would be so much nicer if I was with someone that loved me back the same amount so my dreams changed, I wish for a family with a man that loves me as much as i do him. maybe a house but a family is my dream.
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It would be nice if my boys came over to watch my house a couple times a week while I traveled around pulling a pop up trailer.

Oh, and it would be nice if I had someone to travel with me, my dog, and my cat...lol.

I am retired and just sitting around. Was going to do that with ex.

I want to go along Cape Hatteras by the Carolina's, and go to Dodge City Kansas to get a cowboy hat, and go a little south of that to see the Dalton Gang hide out...etc...

I'm working on a lady from church...maybe next summer...hmmm, what a dreamer.
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Some one who cares for me as much as I care for her.
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