Its been around a decade since Ive hit the dating scene. Im not actually in the dating scene now, and probably wont be for some time to come, but realize that when I do get back into it that Ill be a man with baggage. Baggage is new to me. BTW, Im defining baggage as a person with ties to an old spouse/significant other and or children. Im using the term baggage in fun, I dont mean to put the people that make up the baggage in a negative lightwell maybe my wife (jk). Im just wondering, for those who have dated with baggage, what was it like when you realized that the youd be asking the next person you wanted to enter into a serious relationship with that hed/shed be entering into some kind of relationship with your ex and or children? Also, how do people approach other people with baggage? Any warning signs us folks with baggage should beware of?
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