I have been away from my marriage for 13 months now (officially divorced 4 months ago). I began dating a friend only 3 months after my ex husband and I decided to get a divorce. We dated for nearly 9 months and I somewhat considered him a "band-aid" to help me heal. Hindsight, I absolutely should not have started dating so quickly after the decision to divorce. I didn't even have a chance to process my emotions before jumping back into a relationship. Now that relationship has ended and I am heartbroken because I am grieving the loss of my friend, and finally beginning to grieve the loss of my ex husband. I am petrified to be alone and my instinct is to start the search for "Mr.Right", but I know that is not the answer. I don't know how to break the cycle and go through the grieving process. I know it is different for everyone, but I am hoping someone has gone through a similar situation and has some advice on how to come out on the other side with more strength and wisdom, rather than perpetuating the vicious cycle. Any thoughts would help.....
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