I know of match.com & American Singles..also E-Harmony, but think they only take virgins & Monks..LOL

Perhaps that is why I had no luck with E-Harmony Silver! LOL

Oh I am sorry I thought this was an add. :)

okcupid.com ? says it's FREE

I hope they have dating services in the next life because in this life there is no way I'll be using one. Cleaning service? Yes. Answering service? sure. Dating service? Don't make me puke.

Well sorry, I guess that was not really necessary. If you can date, more power to you.

can't date..... can't even think about dating and starting all over again. someone did once tell me about nocheaters.com or something to that effect. peaked my interest as a good idea..... if of course i gave a shit about dating. maybe someday.

Plenty O fish has long term singles it seems like. Only site I know thats free. It looks like I wont use that one. Kinda makes me be happy to be alone...lol.

Yes, I've used dating services before. Yahoo Personals is where I met my stbx. (ok, bad example!)

I had almost NO LUCK on those sites--they are often fake ads or old ads that are still online. It took me about 10 years to meet my stbx on there, with absolutely no dates other than her.

Does anyone else have any better ideas? I've been to a few singles things (www.meetup.com) and it seems like at least the groups down here are not for singles looking to meet someone--just singles looking to go out.

Any other ideas?

Public swimming pools.. late at night.. adults only.. you really get to see what they look like ahead of time.. trust me on this....lol.........sorry.. lol.... sorry....lol

okay.. besides the obvious.. Produce Aisle.. Frozen food aisle.. the gym.. the park....I don't know.. don't ask a friend.. don't ask....don't ask a relative either...lol..

the pool.. go to the pool!

Okay, I have used dating services. Where else would a full-time mom, employee and student find a place to meet a quality person?

I have been on several sites and had many dates and met many great guys. I think it is all what you put into it. I never played games, was always honest about what I wanted and had a blast. I did this for about 10 months and met the man I am currently dating now on singleparentmeet.com. My church also has a singles group for 20's, 30's and 40's. There are many places to meet people. I like the dating services because you can find the type of person you are looking for. Be specific on your search and don't settle for less. Good luck.

i've always hated dating... seems like people tend to be fake sometimes. its such a pain in the butt. i figure that when the right person comes allong... you wont need to go out find them. i tend to run into big jerks when im looking. but if you are looking to date someone more power to you. i hope you have better luck than i. =)

I work in the holding tanks of the county court house. A very very select and high caliber of people with I encounter every day.
Both M & F.
If everyone could give me a short bio, I'll see what I could do.
(JUST KIDDING)
I too am just as lost as everyone else. Not only am I leary of meeting someone like my stbx again, but also a criminal. Very daunting. One Day at a Time.

It makes you nervous at the thought of having to play the dating game all over again. It is for me anyways. I've tried those online dating thing just for curiosity sake. These sites will try to set you up with anyone. I've had profiles sent to me on someone who was thirty years older than me. LOL

I tried several sites and met some great friends but never found anyone who I felt I was truly supposed to spend my life with. It gave me more false hope than anything. I say pray pray pray!!! God will bring you someone in His amazing timing, as HE did for me. I spent 5 years searching online for love when all the while my husband to be was in my backyard waiting for me. hehehehe!