I have been going out with a guy for a month now and he will never commit to a time or place until the last minute. He says its because he is afraid his kids (8 and 10)are going to need him for something and that they come first and he will drop any and everything for them. I would never ask him to choose me over them. He knows they are in bed by 8 on school nights so why not come see me then? He says he really likes me a lot. I think he is still in love with his x and the kids are his way of still seeing her. I seem to be a magnet for disfunctional men. Other than dump him does anyone have any clues as to how I compete with his kids?????
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