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that said.. yes.. I did date before the ink was dry... the divorce and separation was close to 3 years.. sometimes these things drag on.. and well I was not getting any younger.. I needed to go out and have fun.. I went out with groups of pple mostly, but I was dating too.
Everyone knew I was separated, mom with kids.. not looking for my next Ex.
it really depends on a lot of things.. in my case it did not phase me what he thought, I never flaunted it. And, we were legally separated. Kinda odd since we were in the same house til after the divorce.
I was reclaiming my life. My ability to make choices that make me happy for once.
1. are you legally separated or just split up recently?
2. if you are legally separated to what you want to do.. oath is on hold, since you are making moves to get divorced.
3. if you are just split up for now.. then... you are still bound by the oath is my thinking.. until you show signs that you are heading for divorce court.
so.. I would say.. if no legal separation... then you are bound legally and morally to being married and the oaths you took...
these are the ones I found most helpful
http://www.gagelaw.com/DatingDuringDivorce.shtml
http://www.alovelinksplus.com/advice/ask_april/dating-during-divorce.htm
http://www.divorcerecovery101.com/legal_hazards.html
http://www.ncfamilylaw.com/download/date46.html