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I posted this thought in a thread, but would like some feedback/answers so thought I'd start a discussion.
Dating today... is "dating around" ok or does everyone practice serial monogamy?
I've started dating a man after my divorce and think it moved to "committed" way to soon. I care for him a great deal, but after everything I went through in my marriage, I'm not ready to "settle down" again so soon. Is it acceptable to be dating more than one person? It feels a little dirty to me since my marriage ended with infidelity.
Dating today... is "dating around" ok or does everyone practice serial monogamy?
I've started dating a man after my divorce and think it moved to "committed" way to soon. I care for him a great deal, but after everything I went through in my marriage, I'm not ready to "settle down" again so soon. Is it acceptable to be dating more than one person? It feels a little dirty to me since my marriage ended with infidelity.
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