If you are honest with him, and he agrees to seeing other people, no problem. But you should at least let him know where you stand.

I don't see the problem with dating several people. As long as there isn't any physical intimacy I think I'd like to date more than just 1 guy.

As long as you are honest with the men you are dating there is nothing wrong with dating around. Now, I would not say you should be sleeping with these men also. Your time will come when dating around is not what you want anymore and you will be willing to settle down.

STD's do the moving around also. Not to mention immorality.

...and I never hear of anyone practicing chastity anymore.

I liked old rules better. Makes me more and more determined to chuck it all and ride motorcycle and go camping more...lol.

I agree 100% with Hotpocket, part of what killed my relationship with my stbx was when she stopped tring to communicate honestly. Part of what makes relationships diffacult is the fact the other party involved can be at a different "stage" then you are and so signals can be mis construed and feelings hurt, but communication helps to understand where the other one is comming from.

I'm not ready for dating again myself but I don't see why when I do it can't be with more then one person, unless it has gotten serious enough with one to say "hey this might be the one that I can spend the rest of my life with", of course the fact that I already said that once and 16 yrs later woundering "what happend?" says I need to approach it with more caution.

I should make a T'Shirt with a Yellow dimond like street sign graphic that reads "Caution: Divorcee Ahead, proceed slowly"

Btw, I agree with the other posts. Dating around and sleeping around are two different things. Intimacy of the sexual level should be left for when your serious and are dating exclusivly

I am not looking for a commitment right now. As for sex I misss it and want it (it's been over 2 years) but only protected and with no strings. I will tell any lady this and even if it means no sex. I believe that we should see and date many others. We need to know for sure that we have who we want this time. I wish I had given my last relationship more time to see how she really was. It's not dirty Hon. You didn't cheat on him, HE cheated on you and ended things. You need to do what makes you feel happy and meet your needs. I don't mean go take advantage of very guy you meet but be up front and tell them what you want and expect in advance. If they want to try and see if it will work out they will if not then they were not right for you in the first place.

Dating different people is best, without physical intimacy. That is the old school way of finding the right person, and they were right.

There is nothing wrong with dating more than one person unless you have actually made a committment to one of them that you wouldn't see other people. A dating relationship should be considered casual until you have a conversation and agree that you want to be exclusive. Honesty is always best but there is nothing wrong with dating more than one person.

This used to be the norm. I am not sure when this changed (I was out of the loop for 20 years!). I think when people started having sexual relationships earlier in the dating process it became expected that the relationship would progress more quickly.

I agree that you should be honest. I also believe that now that you hav eyour freedom; us it....enjoy it