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I am 39 and was married for almost 16 years. I have not dated since I was 21. Things sure have changed. I thought that men and women call each other to communicate. With all the new technology, I find that men text and send emails more often then calling.
To me that is kind of impersonal. Please shed some light on this for me. Why can't people just pick up the phone? I do enjoy texting. It is fun and I can text when I can not talk. But it has to be more. How can you form a relationship like this?
I may be paronoid but something I feel it is a way a man tries to hide the fact that he maybe involved with someone else and sneaks away to send a quick message. Maybe and maybe not!
To me that is kind of impersonal. Please shed some light on this for me. Why can't people just pick up the phone? I do enjoy texting. It is fun and I can text when I can not talk. But it has to be more. How can you form a relationship like this?
I may be paronoid but something I feel it is a way a man tries to hide the fact that he maybe involved with someone else and sneaks away to send a quick message. Maybe and maybe not!
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
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but then one...day.....oh yeah...here it comes...... I met someone....someone very very special to me!
And...well the rest is in my journal!
RESTORED....utilizing the new technology and applying it to dating or meeting new people has been common for a few years now. Back in the day it might of been a newspaper ad and phone # back in the golden days ya know. No difference really now..other than we have web cams...internet...cell phones...online dating sites....etc. You can take as long as you want if you meet someone online....you dont have to run out and meet them you can take as long as you want to try to feel them out or size them up.....you know what I mean. Takes time to find common ground and see or feel who this person you meet might be like. Its up to each individual overall...so go with whats comfortable. My point is....it just broadens the scope of finding that person instead of just limiting yourself to your zip code. I got that advice from a special lady once.........I wish you the best RESTORED. Hope 1 or 2 of these words help you.
~Tek Joe