
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Rebounding, ignoring red flags, repeating behaviors that have not been properly addressed...the list goes on.
The best way to truly "win" in this situation is to take time out and heal. If there are things you need to work on, work on them. Don't just ignore them and figure they'll go away if you get into another relationship.
And no, this is not aimed at you specifically. I'm not saying you were the reason for your relationship not working out. These are just some things to keep in mind.
Why can't we find a way to meet up with people as Friends??? No pressure, no expectations, no DRAMA???
As far as getting "out there" ahead of the stbx/ex, take your eyes off of Them and FOCUS on Yourself. Give YOU a Gift. Learn who You are. This is Your Time.
I have a huge sign over my door. "It's All About ME!!!"
Yes, I really AM being just that selfish. First time in my life. I need that. You do, Too.
We ALL need Friends of the opposite sex. We are starving for voices, input, companionship...that will cause us to "fall in love" with the first thing that comes along if we are not careful.