Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Last night my friend from work took me out to a comedy show and for some drinks. I didn't feel well because of a nasty cold, but I went for some of the comedy show. It was so nice to laugh...and a male friend of her's showed some interest. He and I talked about life, about my issues at home, and for once I was able to laugh, and hang out with friends freely. When I got home really late, the stbx pouted and made me feel guilty.
Why feel this way? Why do stbx who DUMP YOU make YOU feel bad for now moving on?????
HE WANTED ME TO MOVE ON....I thought...hell he asked for the divorce!
Why feel this way? Why do stbx who DUMP YOU make YOU feel bad for now moving on?????
HE WANTED ME TO MOVE ON....I thought...hell he asked for the divorce!
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block that feeling right out. you had a good time. focus on that. the hell with him. he can't have his cake and eat it too.
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Do they ever know what they want? Don't feel bad. Enjoy the time you had. He made his decision so he needs to move on!
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I agree. He had his chance and screwed it up. Do what makes you happy and don't let him make you feel guilty.
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It sounds like he don't want you, but don't want you to move on with your life either. I'd tell him that this is HIS choice, not yours. You're moving on withOUT him.
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he wants to move on, just wants you there as a backup plan in case it doesn't work for him. Don't you DARE feel guilty.....you aren't "backburner chicken"---you have every right to be happy! You shouldn't be anyone's leftovers!
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I prefer for my STBX to move on and hope she finds someone to make her happy where I could not....
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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