Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Well at this moment right now the stbx should be entering in to the courtroom to finalize this D.
Divorce is an emotionally charged process I don't care how far I believe i have come in my "detachment" I have to realize that I still have strong feelings for her. And i am a little emotional right now and I find myself crying right now, not just for her but for our children. They deserve so much better than the two of us have given them
It's tough right now to see the light at the end of the tunnel. But, it is there. I know I will get through it. And, in time these wounds will truly heal.
I have already begun my healing process on this forum. I find now that is important to feel all the feelings during this moment times of adversity and heartache.
Denying my pain, or denying my feelings, will not benefit me in any way. In fact, it will only prolong the troubles that face me.
If I face this D head on I know I will triumph in the end
You know my past adversity including this divorce, has truly been a blessing in my life. I dont look forward to future adversity, however I know it will come. When it does come, I will have the knowledge of the past strength to help me overcome, I know always if there is something troubling me i can come to this site for the strength and encouragement I need, and once again triumph.
I hope for everyone will be able to one day look at their current divorce situation and find their empowerment.
Divorce is an emotionally charged process I don't care how far I believe i have come in my "detachment" I have to realize that I still have strong feelings for her. And i am a little emotional right now and I find myself crying right now, not just for her but for our children. They deserve so much better than the two of us have given them
It's tough right now to see the light at the end of the tunnel. But, it is there. I know I will get through it. And, in time these wounds will truly heal.
I have already begun my healing process on this forum. I find now that is important to feel all the feelings during this moment times of adversity and heartache.
Denying my pain, or denying my feelings, will not benefit me in any way. In fact, it will only prolong the troubles that face me.
If I face this D head on I know I will triumph in the end
You know my past adversity including this divorce, has truly been a blessing in my life. I dont look forward to future adversity, however I know it will come. When it does come, I will have the knowledge of the past strength to help me overcome, I know always if there is something troubling me i can come to this site for the strength and encouragement I need, and once again triumph.
I hope for everyone will be able to one day look at their current divorce situation and find their empowerment.
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You are much stronger than you realize. Don't look at this day as the end of a marriage, but as the begining to a new life. I actually made the day that would have been our 23rd wedding anniversary a day of celebration of my kids, at the advice of a good friend. For they were a product of my marriage. That is the one gift that he gave me that he can never ever take away. So continue to be strong and move forward. Good luck!!
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Wishing you all the best on the first day of your new life.
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
