I am going through a divorce. There has been one hearing last September already and my ex was awarded 88% visitation, and me 12%. The state of Minnesota has made it extremely difficult for me to get more custody without the ex agreeing to this. And of course, she knows this is hurting me so badly that she's not going to change it. My only chance at changing the custody is for me to go to court and contest the case. Obviously I'm going to do that, but I can't help the feeling that nothing is going to change. I am so disappointed with the judicial system and my ex and I don't know what to do. These are my kids too and I want to be their dad. I want to be involved. She continues to fabricate stories that hurt me and make me look bad. I really don't know what to do, where to turn, and how to see the hope that things can or might change. I'm really feeling defeated. My boys are beautiful and they are 3 and 5. We have the best time together. In the ex's home she is co-habitating already with someone who has a criminal drug history but the court doesn't seem to care about that unless something bad happens. Thanks for any replies in advance. Sincerely
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