I need some wisdom from all of you out there that has gone thru a custody battle. My husband, who is an alcoholic has stated he is going to fight for 50/50 custody. I have offered him Thursday, Friday and Saturday nights EVERY week with the kids, but he says thats not enough. He loves to spread his misery to all around him. Before our divorce proceedings he spent his time on the couch watching TV while the kids and I did stuff, now he wants to be super dad. He does at times have some redeeming qualities, but he is far from super dad. Any advice? Anyone has this same problem with their wife/husband? I don't want anything of his, like his business or the house, I just want out with a little child support to pay the rent. I currently am working two jobs to pay all the bills, and its most certainly worth it because I no longer have to live with him. But why does he have to be so irrational? Thanks!
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