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Did any of your stbx's threaten to try to get custody of the children because they knew that is what would hurt you most. Mine has said he is going to, even has the kids wanting to live with him because he tells them they will have whatever they want. He hasn't filed any papers with the courts yet but I worry about it all the time. He has never felt that the kids should come first and was always jelous because I would put them first. Right now I am the only one that has filed for custody of them. I did it as soon as I filed for the divorce back in June.
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Don't overthink things. Be prepared.
For now these are threats, a way of intimidating you and it is possible that it has to do with money... him not wanting to pay you spousal and child support.
so.. do not panic at this point... be aware of the fact he may file for sole custody... let your lawyer know this.. and then wait and see what HE does.
My Ex threatened me too.. made up a lot of lies and rumours to pple about my inability to parent, to tend to the kids, that he was the breadwinner and would be the better parent. Requested that I have a psychiatric evaluation.
The Judge would not hear any of it.
not saying it will be that way for you... I have 3 girls... but..keep in mind you have been the primary caregiver for a long time probably... and that speaks volumes.
Continue to be a good Mom.