My divorce was final 3 weeks ago and last week my ex husband called and said he wanted to try and get back together (we were married 24 yrs.) Up till then I hadn't heard a word from him in 4 months plus he's had a girlfriend during this time. We met a few times and talked on the phone seeing if things might work again. Well tonight he called and said he doesn't want to try anymore. How can anyone be so cruel! I was healing and moving forward before this and now I feel like I did on day one. I don't think I can go through all of this again, why does he think it's ok to treat someone like this and toy with their emotions. I have no one to talk to--everyone would have thought I was crazy to even think about reconciling with him--but I love him and just hate the hold he has on me. I want to be happy again! Thanks for listening to me pour out my grief. Why do we love those that treat us so badly?
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