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You know you have those days when you think nothing else can go wrong??? Well Im havin one of them....and Ive actually prayed (briefly) that nothing else will go wrong cos I cant take anymore!
I wont bore you with all the details but heres an outline....
...I have the beginnings of a chest infection
....I spent 7 hours today clearing out the store at our old house cos ex wont do it....most of the stuff is his btw....6 tirps to the tip in a 4x4 later I discover that he went in on sunday and took the things HE wanted and left me and my 63 yr old dad to do the donkey work!
....collected the post only to find WE are 3 months in arrears on the mortgage on the property (agreement is he pays it til sale goes through but its in joint names) and the building society want to stamp a repossesion order on it!
.....My 8 yr old is currently in accident and emergency with his dad (my ex) with a possible broken foot from falling off the sofa (he was bouncing on it at the time so Im struggling on the sympathy front)
.....I have recently filed a greivance at work and the trustees call this evening to arrange a meeting!
Please think of me as I really dont know how much more I can take!!
I wont bore you with all the details but heres an outline....
...I have the beginnings of a chest infection
....I spent 7 hours today clearing out the store at our old house cos ex wont do it....most of the stuff is his btw....6 tirps to the tip in a 4x4 later I discover that he went in on sunday and took the things HE wanted and left me and my 63 yr old dad to do the donkey work!
....collected the post only to find WE are 3 months in arrears on the mortgage on the property (agreement is he pays it til sale goes through but its in joint names) and the building society want to stamp a repossesion order on it!
.....My 8 yr old is currently in accident and emergency with his dad (my ex) with a possible broken foot from falling off the sofa (he was bouncing on it at the time so Im struggling on the sympathy front)
.....I have recently filed a greivance at work and the trustees call this evening to arrange a meeting!
Please think of me as I really dont know how much more I can take!!
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
I seem to get a lot of crap days recently.
Sometimes life just sucks I guess.
Good luck.
Yes, it sounds like a Crap Day, alright :-/
Time to pull blankets up over your head and Hide.
My son has a fractured metatarsal!! A small fracture but is in alot of pain and on crutches!!!
Thanks all for your kind words.
(((((hugs))))))