OK.. I have been coming here for over a month and I can't beleive how many times I read the word counseling. Don't get me wrong, I'm not knocking it, I just want to know if it really works. My maybe STBX has agreed to go, but we really can't afford it. It has been many years since I have been to couples counseling, and that was in a group setting and all the couples did was bash each other. I don't think that's very productive, and we agreed that if that's what it turned into we weren't going back. I'm just curious if it really helps? I don't know if anyone here is working on stopping the big D, but if so did you find other ways to work on the relationship besides counseling?
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