Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
after court day on the 22nd which was a monday, my stbx and i had a discussion (I posted about some of it here) That day he tried to bad mouth me in front of the family relations guy. he was asked < What are your concerns for teh "Family" etc. and a-hole said my concerns are that annmarie has mental health issues and has been lying and going thru my stuff. well, this of course, isnt all true. yes i have major deprssion, yes , ive gone through his stuff in the past , but not recently. and NO i havent been lying AT ALL. anyway, the we were having a discussion and he said , annmarie, On monday(court)) i was upset because i thought you were looking through my emmail and read them from my attorney. well I NEVER did that. i told him i didnt. whether HE believes it or not is different. the thing is that he badmouthed me to the fr guy in order to lash back at me for what he "THOUGHT" id dont to him. UN F'n Real. the fr guy told him he wastnt looking for issues about me as a person. he put him in his place a couple times. when will this all end?
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
The best advice is to keep your cool. Don't show him the he gets to you. Put him in his place. Tell him his behavior is inappropriate and embarrasing and keep moving on.