i went to court yesterday for what was going to be a case management meeting to let the court know where we are as far as agreeing/disagreeing on issues like custoday. i ended up having to go in a room with family relations guys, my stbx, and myself. we were asked questions like what are your concerns for the family, what would you like to see happen? etc. my stbx was asked first and he said this. "MY CONCERN IS THAT SHE HAS MENTAL HEALTH ISSUES AND HAS BEEN LYING LATELY AND GOING THRU MY STUFF." the fr guy just simply put him in his place by stating that he did not mean about me as a person but concerns about the family I guess as far as custody goes and the welfare of the "children". what do you all think about that response to the fr question? I was told he stbx shot himself in the foot. stbx then proceeded to say that he 'd like to move into his mothers 4 bedroom house with the boys and he has plenty of "friends and Family" around that will help him as far as the kids bus schedule goes. thats f'n great . just take them away from their mother. i told the fr id like custody and will cont' to be a good mom that i am and my schedule coordinates with that of the children since i work in the school system with summers off etc. what do any of y'all think?