Well my stbx is filing as we speak. 4 years and in 3-4 months it will be over without trying to save it. He walked out 5 weeks ago and said he just wanted a divorce. I have found out since that he most likely has something going with his boss. I don't think it is physical yet but it is definitely emotional. I know that I could probably never trust him again. As my first ex cheated on me 3 times. I think this might be the second time for the second. I know that he is not a very motivated person I have gioven him everything in the last 4 years. I suppoorted hin the last 2 through 5 different jobs. I hvae also come to realize that I gave just about everything emotionally and he didn't give very much in return. I told him on the phone today to get the rest of his stuff out of the house. It ios better for me and for my dog, as everytime he comes down we have problems with her pooping int he house and last night she peed in her kennel. i know he is upsetting her becasue he came down on Tuesday and yesterday. He still has a shitload of stuff here. I know that financially and emotionally that I am much better opff without him and most of trhe ime I do okay, but it doesn't make it easier. I know this was not my failure but his as he as many issues to deal with. Thanks
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