Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I am probably going to drive myself crazy with this question because there's no logical answer I guess. I was totally honest and loyal for 12 years. The thought of cheating or feeling attracted to someone never crossed my mind. It sees the chances of finding someone as loyal as myself might be pretty slim. That's discouraging.
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There are people out there who remain faithful. Don't give up hope.
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I am totally with you. it's hard to trust when there's been so much disception, but it will happen. I am just tring to figure out where to go from here. On the same page with you.
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This hole web site is chuck full of very faithful people. They are out there. The trick is finding accurate screening tools. I don't have the answer for that yet. But I'm learning that divorce recover places are places mostly for the ones that were left...the ones who were faithful for the most part. We still have our problems but we'er faithful.
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There is a good, honest, loving, caring soul mate out there for you somewhere. Don't give up hope.
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This question will plague mankind (womankind) for all time.
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Sorry guys if I offended you with the "why do men cheat" question. My girlfriends are all like me, loyal and honest. I forget that women and men both betray their spouses.
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I know that I didn't cheat, not because I never looked at another woman but because that is the way I am hardwired. I just don't do things like that. My sbtx is not that way. She does things like that. What I want to change is to chose someone like me, who is faithful, rathter than being attracted someone like my sbtx, who was dishonest about her actions and feelings, couldn't ask honestly for what she needed, and who when she felt sad, turned to massive spending and another man. If I can get healthy and learn about myself then I have a chance to avoid making the same mistake again. I have hope that I can grow in this way, and that we all can if we are willing to look at ourselves honestly enough.
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I agree with Sara. I believe that there are more people who are faithful and committed then there are people who cheat. You will find the right person for yourself. Don't give up.
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I think people cheat because they are selfish and lack the emotional quality to empathise. There ARE faithful people out there. Unfortunately, there seem to be a lot of selfish cheaters too! Don't give up the hope, just look for the red flags with the next person you meet.
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