a month ago my husbend of 15 years came to me a said that he didnt know if he loved me anymore. i broke my heart.Now he is telling me that he feels like he is being taken advange of that we denpend on him to much, and he cant do this anymore, (being a husbend or being a father to our 3 kids) he wants time to himself to be left alone to do as he pleases and as long as that is being done he is happy but if a question him about anything he gets all freaked out. He saids that he is not cheating on me (but I dont trust him) He has also said that we will try counciling but that has not happened yet. He does blame me for all of this, he saids that am emotioal mess (which I am) and that I dont trust him. and that i should just let him be. I know that I need to get strong for my self and for my kids but I cant seem to stop crying and get to that point. I need help!!!
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