Thats what my wife says I am. How do I get help for this? I can see where I have tried so hard to control things in our relationship. I see this honestly for the first time in my life. If I wanted her to be happy, I would try to make her that way, and if she wasnt, it was all her fault. When I thought she should be upset about something, I expected her to be upset, and when she wasnt, it would make me angry. Damn, why has it taken 10 years to see this? Where do I go from here?
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