Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
First off our judicial system sucks! My stbx was ordered on Nov. 30 to pay child support and maintenance as of Dec.1 plus catch up the mortgage which is 3 mos late. Today is the 7th he has not paid I contacted attorney she filed contempt but can't get it on the dockett until 21st and if he pays by then he will have a black mark he is self employed my attorney tells me 1/2 of all support is never collected I work part time can't even pay for an apartment(going to school too) but he has the right to see his kids even though he won't support them how is this possible? any ideas please feel free to share :)
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
call the bank.. let them know you are handling it and the mortgage is not being paid... you will avoid all the calls and stres prior to Christmas by making the calls. Do not be too proud to call. This is not your fault that the money is not there.
Do not badtalk Dad.
Do not call him or harass him.
Let your lawyer handle this... and wait it out.
If you see the EX.. when he comes for the kids.. remind him you have no money and he owes you money for support. Leave it matter of fact... do not lose control.
This from the woman who was screaming into the phone and crying to the EX yesterday... i know. i know.. but.. I have recourse..I am heading to court on Monday to file for him breaking the terms of the divorce decree.
good luck.. i am not talking to the Ex anymore...filing Monday.. he can talk to the lawyers now. Going to be interesting since he has the kids tonight.