My stbx called tonight and wants me to get all of our bills ready to send to him becuase he wants to get a consolidation loan. We haven't even started the divorce proceedings yet and he wants to do this. I asked why and he said he wanted to make it easier on us. i think he wants it easier for him. There are talks of him getting a big signing bnus in April and he said he would pay off everything, including the house for me to live in. I think he wants this loan so he won't have to pay so much in the end. He wants me to settle for 1500/mth, when he makes over 100,000 a year and I have his 2 kids here and a house and van to keep going. He hasn't even mentioned alimony, but he has said that I will need to get a job because he can't keep me on forever. I really don't think he is dealing with a full deck. Any suggestions on what I should do about the consolidation loan? I need some help here pleassssssseeeeeeee!
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