Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Here I was, had my mind wrapped around the divorce thought, had found an apt, went to an attorney, was ready to move out, then BAM, stbx now has second thoughts and wants to try and reconcile. I had my thoughts and actions going in the divorce direction, and now they are all screwed up again. I have no clue what to do. Please help.
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Get some counseling and work out the problems that got you to this point. Good luck! Hugs.
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Is the divorce really what you want? I f he's willing to reconcile and you are too, try to get him into marriage couseling and see where it goes.
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Take time to think about what you want. If you want to try to work it out, do so. Do it because you want to do it though, not just because he wants to.
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take it slow
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I agree with the others, take it slow, do what you want to do and if you do decide to reconcile, then I strong suggest counseling!
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