ok, so a lot of you know my story...for those of you who don't well here's a quick re-cap. January, my husband leaves me, tells me he's not in love with me anymore, yada, yada, 2 months later, haven't talked to him but just a handful of times, seen him twice...he tells me he's realized he's still in love with me and wants me back. Ok, I've decided that I don't want to go back to that environment again...I want a divorce. Now what???? I've talked about it and this is what I want, but what do I do???? We don't have anything to fight over, we don't have kids and even though yea, I feel he should have to pay alimony for a while because he kept me from working for our entire relationship I'm not gonna fight him on that either. If he agrees, great if not that's fine with me too. Should I get a lawyer?? Should I try and make him pay some of the money that I owe the bank since it was HIS fault it was over drawn??? I don't know!!! I don't even know where to send the divorce papers too when I get that far, he wont tell me exactly where he's at. I hate this!! I'm so confused...can someone help me?????
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