
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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My mouth is causing me to lose out more and more on the possibility of a very happy future vs. crawling under a rock. Husband and I are very codependent for the past 23 years, and last night I really blew it again by cutting him down for joining a support group for codependent people, which he feels he is getting a lot out of, and just cutting him down in general. When will I learn to shut up!!! I feel even more like a nothing now! We are always on the defensive with each other. With the divorce on hold for now, why is it so tough to come together without hashing over all the past crap that ruined our marriage as well? No progress whatsoever!! I wish I could think before I talk!
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Learn to be proactive rather than reactive.
Undoing past behaviours is the hardest part in the whole process if a marraige is trying to be saved. One of the hardest things you will ever have to do, but once learned will serve you well.
Hopefully you have apologized and praised him for seeing support. That is a postive step for him, just as you finding DS was a positive step for you.
Having said that, don't beat yourself up, just remember back to this experience, how it made you feel afterwards and try to do better the next time. I know you can do it!
Good luck!
Best thing is to get yourself help and join a different group that he doesn't go to and get yourself better too. Good luck!