that is devastating to find out....hard to go back ...you want to believe them and they do it again....i look early for signs of a liar...and I tell them I value honesty it takes courage to tell the truth..Ive never been able to stay with a liar..thats me

If he changed into a liar it is something. Drugs. Girlfriend. Alcohol.

???

If he is lying about this stuff, imagine something critical...

He's proven himself untrustworthy.
If you go back to him, he'll hurt you again.
Maybe he was just a better liar for the first two years.

My STBX is a delusional liar...he believes every lie he says...I don't know if that's worse than a compulsive liar.

If there is a fire in the house you don't ask it how hot it is. Leave him before you get burned again.

Not really your problem why he is a liar and a theif. Recommend he get help and leave before you really get hurt...or he steals your identity

I went out with a guy for 2 years who just lied about one thing after another and what was worse I'm sure he believe everything he said!!! In the end I had to end it with him as I was getting paronoid and I think that trust is the most important thing in a relationship. If you haven't got that you've got nothing. He treated me really well, bought me presents took me out... but I just couldn't cope with all the constant lies which just seem to get bigger.....

Compulsive liars? Don't get me started! Please read my profile and you could be me in 17 years. I don't know if your bf will ever change, but speaking from my own pitiful experience, once a liar always a liar! Good luck to you :)

Jaz, what has he done to PROVE he means it? How do you know he wont just use you again? Go with what your heart says... maybe worth a try with some restriction s and set expectations in place.

my question is why does he want to make it all work, did you just catch him doing this? wow, broken trust is so tough to overcome. do what you feel is right in your heart and mind. will you always have to hide the wonderful things you have.

SCCRB...a dilusional-compulsive liar? & narcissist.

I married a compulsive liar so count your self lucky and move on. You can't trust him and you probably never will, run don't walk away from this. There is to much bull shit in the world you don't need to take on any more then you already have.

Unfortunately, being married to a liar is something I am intimate with.. 18 1/2 yrs later, I am saying run. It is too late for me, but I am hoping that some of the good people here that have had this experience can make you reevaluate staying with him.. It is a hard life to choose and took me such a long time to get out of..It also hurts you long after the leaving has occurred in so many different ways. Your trust being the biggie.. Best of luck to you what ever you decide to do.. Kimmee

liars are tricky. Do I believe liars can change? yes.,but it requires a significant amount of work to do so and unfortunately most times the liar doesn't want to change. Its a tough call, but you need to ask yousrelf if you are willing to give him another chance. Don't turn into me and give chance after chance afer chance....just one more chance and you'll know. I'm sorry you're going through this.

I just broke up with my compulsive liar. Luckily, I only dated him for 4 months. BUT in that 4 months everything has been a lie. Down to his age(tod me he was 26 when really he is 27. Why lie by 1 year?) He lied about his father being alive(he is really dead). Found out he was a chronic masturbator and sex addict. Found out he was really into guys when he claimed to be straight. Found out he fucks prostitutes on a regular basis. Lies about where he's going, who he is with etc. I could go on but you get the picture. But the funny thing is that he treated me like a QUEEN to my face. But meanwhile, back at the ranch, it was a different story. Very duplicitous, conniving. Had a double life. ANd the way I found out all this stuff was my being a snoop. I snooped on his cell, on his email and I DO NOT regret it one bit! If I hadn't done that I would still be with the lying scumbag none the wiser. So my suggestion to you is to snoop on your man. Find out what other skeletons he has in his closet cause trust me girl, this credit card thing is only the tip of the iceberg. THEN dump him.