My S2BX calls me about once a week wanting to know things about paperwork for the divorce or taxes, how long the process of divorcing is going to take, etc. But then, he wants to ask me friendly questions like, "How are you?," "What have you been doing?," "How is the job search?," etc. Although I'm very hurt and angry about the whole divorce (we had no major problems, he just said that he didn't love me like he should), I'm trying to keep things clean rather than getting nasty (plus that's very much outside my personality). But, at the same time, I don't know how to just flip a switch and talk to the guy I was supposed to spend the rest of my life with like a casual friend. Any ideas for fielding the "friendly" questions without being ugly?
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