Right there with you re: insensivity to us, the brokenhearted. I just don't get it, how they can NOT think of the other person. Maybe he'll catch something he can't get rid of:)

Well..my ex took the kids Christmas shopping and sent them home with a Christmas Ornament with the OW's name on it.

Thinking that he could have kept that at his house.

I am no longer expecting any common couresy from him.

What a jerk...!

Thanks for your support! You hit it on the head!! I can't expect the courtesy, in fact it was really never there in the first place! Silly me

Boy this one got me thinking...

The long list of insensitive things. The long list of way beyond insensitive things.

Makes me thankful that I am no longer married to Mr. Insensitive.

I think he is doing it just to bug you hurting your feelings is the only controll he has over the situation, sounds like you are better off without him.

Great way to explain what they are doing smaguire. Hurting our feelings is the only control they have over the situation. Thanks.

I always wondered why she would do things that I felt were insensitive then act like a deer in headlights when I called her on it.

Wow...got me thinking too about the long long list and how each insensitivity was a shock to me....wonder how many times I need to get shocked before I start expecting it...LOL

Yes, I am SO much better off

I don't think it ever really stops being shocking. Even when you know it is going to happen.

I do laugh sometimes now when he pulls one of his stunts. I have this one friend who is very southern, very ladylike, and every time I tell her about something that she does she says.." OH MY GOD".. in this very funny way. Then she feels bad for using God's name in that manner... but says she just couldn't help it.

I need to stop telling her things..lol

LOL, funny...wonder how she would handle being involved with a jerk!
I'm sure it would be an eye opener!! Sure was for me!

my STBX did that to me..when i frst found out about his gf he wouldnt bring her to the house but he would go out all night and take her out...sometimes he wouldnt even come home...it sucks!! but stay strong!!

That's beyond rude... count your blessings that you're out of that!

I can relate ! Been divorced a couple of months and it's been difficult. Went out Friday night to a neighborhood pub, just to get out of the house and not feel so lonely. I'm there about an hour and here the ex comes in the door with one of my best friends. So much for the fun night out.

Thanks alot..it really helps & I will be counting my blessings as I am counting down the 20 more days until I can move

the DAY my wife and i decided to "take a few days apart" she brought home some puke while i went outta town and screwed him in our house. i am well aware of insensitive. and that was only the begining...