my stbx agreed to go halves on Santa gifts for our three teenage boys. i guess i was stupid enough to believe that he would hold up his end of the agreement. well, guess what?, he ran out of money and can't help me. here's the thing: he already told the kids we were going halves on ALL the x mas gifts. so now the kids think that all the gifts are from both of us unless i tell them otherwise. so do i tell them? or do i just let it be so my kids don't think their father is a complete loser? i feel petty if i say anything and angry and frustred that i'm spending the money and he's coming out looking like a great father. what do i do?
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